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What does it mean?
The Dalai Lama is uniquely honest, yet he skillfully avoids causing harm with his words.
In plain terms
He is truthful but careful not to hurt others.
What can you take from it?
Honesty paired with empathy is powerful.

Where it applies

  • public speaking
  • conflict resolution
  • teaching

Putting it to work

  • practicing compassionate honesty

Questions to consider

  • How can we balance truth with kindness?
  • When is it appropriate to soften honesty?

Another view

Being too blunt can still cause unintended pain.

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