'Everywhere bourgeois society insists on the exertion of will; only love is supposed to be involuntary, pure immediacy of feeling. In its longing for this, which means a dispensation from work, the bourgeois idea of love transcends bourgeois society. But in erecting truth directly amid the general untruth, it perverts the former into the latter.'
About this quote
- What does it mean?
- Bourgeois love promises pure spontaneity but ends up reinforcing the same falsehoods it claims to escape.
- In plain terms
- Love is idealized as involuntary yet becomes another illusion.
- What can you take from it?
- Critically examine romantic ideals.
Where it applies
Putting it to work
Questions to consider
- How does love function under capitalism?
- What is authentic love?
Another view
Some love experiences are genuinely liberating.
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