The peculiar foreign superstition that the English do not like love, the evidence being that they do not talk about it.
About this quote
- What does it mean?
- Pritchett argues that English reserve is wrongly seen as dislike for love, when it is actually avoidance of talk about it.
- In plain terms
- Not talking about love does not mean not feeling it.
- What can you take from it?
- Silence does not equal absence of emotion.
Where it applies
Putting it to work
Questions to consider
- How do you show love?
- Is silence emotional distance?
Another view
It relies on a generalized cultural observation.
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