Woman much missed, how you call to me, call to me, Saying that now you are not as you were When you had changed from the one who was all to me, But as at first, when our day was fair.
About this quote
- What does it mean?
- The speaker misses his wife as she was before she changed.
- In plain terms
- He misses her like he knew her before life changed her.
- What can you take from it?
- Grief often fixates on the past version of a loved one.
Where it applies
Putting it to work
Questions to consider
- Do we mourn people or versions of them?
- Is memory honest?
Another view
Change can also bring positive growth.
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