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What does it mean?
Honesty requires the courage to offend when necessary. Avoiding offense compromises truthfulness.
In plain terms
To be honest, you must be willing to offend.
What can you take from it?
Be willing to offend to remain honest.

Where it applies

  • personal integrity
  • difficult conversations

Putting it to work

  • practicing honesty
  • speaking truth

Questions to consider

  • When is honesty too harsh?
  • What matters more: truth or comfort?

Another view

Some honesty can be cruel without purpose.

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