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What does it mean?
Changing how you respond to others is presented as the most effective way to alter your social reality.
In plain terms
Change your behavior to change how people treat you.
What can you take from it?
Adjust your reactions to shift social dynamics.

Where it applies

  • conflict resolution
  • self-help

Putting it to work

  • conflict resolution
  • interpersonal coaching

Questions to consider

  • Can you control outcomes by only changing your own behavior?

Another view

It assumes the other party will respond predictably.

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