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What does it mean?
Violence or aggression toward others makes trust impossible because anyone could be targeted next.
In plain terms
If you are aggressive to everyone, no one can trust you.
What can you take from it?
Aggression destroys trust and friendship.

Where it applies

  • conflict resolution
  • building relationships
  • setting boundaries

Putting it to work

  • avoid aggression
  • build trust
  • protect yourself

Questions to consider

  • How do you define safety in a relationship?
  • What behaviors break trust for you?

Another view

Not all aggression is intentional or directed personally.

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