'For most people, self-awarness and self-pity blossom simultaneously in early adolescence. Its about that time that we start viewing the world as something other than a whoop-de-doo playground, we start to experience personally how threatening it can be, how cruel and unjust. At the very moment when we become, for the first time, both introspective and socially conscientious, we receive the bad news that the world, by and large, doesn't give a rat's ass'
About this quote
- What does it mean?
- Adolescence marks a painful realization of the world's harshness and indifference as self-awareness grows.
- In plain terms
- When kids become self-aware they realize the world is cruel and doesn't care about them.
- What can you take from it?
- Growing up involves losing innocence and accepting the world's indifference.
Where it applies
Putting it to work
Questions to consider
- When did you realize the world didn't care?
- How does this affect your relationships?
Another view
Not all adolescents experience this shift at the same time or intensity.
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