We give advice by the bucket, but take it by the grain.
About this quote
- What does it mean?
- People freely offer lots of advice but rarely follow it themselves.
- In plain terms
- Advice is given easily but taken sparingly.
- What can you take from it?
- Be critical of the advice you give and receive.
Where it applies
Putting it to work
Questions to consider
- Do you follow your own advice?
- Why is advice so easy to give?
Another view
This generalization overlooks instances where people both give and follow advice consistently.
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