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What does it mean?
Beating a dog with a bone might distract it from biting, but it is a twisted form of violence.
In plain terms
Giving the dog something to hit stops it from hurting you.
What can you take from it?
Sometimes distraction prevents aggression.

Where it applies

  • dangerous situations
  • dealing with aggression

Putting it to work

  • use distraction to defuse conflict

Questions to consider

  • How do you handle aggression?
  • Is violence ever the right tool?

Another view

This advice promotes violence and is not a good general rule.

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