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What does it mean?
U Thant explains his lack of visible emotion upon hearing of his son's death as achieving emotional balance.
In plain terms
He stayed calm after his son died because he mastered emotional control.
What can you take from it?
Emotional equilibrium can look like indifference.

Where it applies

  • handling loss
  • public service
  • leadership training

Putting it to work

  • manage public grief
  • train for emotional resilience

Questions to consider

  • Is calmness a form of strength?
  • How should leaders handle personal tragedy?

Another view

Stoicism may appear cold to those expecting visible mourning.

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