Now it so happens in the world that opposed to characters of such persons as he there are characters like mine, for instance. I care as little for the world's opinion as that man cared for what was right. To appear right was enough for him; what I think the most important is not to deceive or desert a woman.
About this quote
- What does it mean?
- The speaker contrasts himself with others who care about appearing right, stating his priority is not deceiving or abandoning a woman.
- In plain terms
- I care more about honesty with a woman than about what the world thinks or looking good.
- What can you take from it?
- Honesty in relationships matters more than public reputation.
Where it applies
Putting it to work
Questions to consider
- What matters more to you: truth or reputation?
- How do you define loyalty?
Another view
The quote assumes honesty is the only moral metric without addressing other duties.
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