A sort of transaction went on between them, in which she was on one side, and life was on another, and she was always trying to get the better of it, as it was of her; and sometimes they parleyed (when she sat alone); there were, she remembered, great reconciliation scenes; but for the most part, oddly enough, she must admit that she felt this thing that she called life terrible, hostile, and quick to pounce on you if you gave it a chance. There were the eternal problems: suffering; death; the poor. There was always a woman dying of cancer even here. And yet she had said to all these children, You shall go through with it. To eight people she had said relentlessly that... For that reason, knowing what was before them - love and ambition and being wretched alone in dreary places - she had often the feeling, Why must they grow up and lose it all? And then she said to herself, brandishing her sword at life, Nonsense. They will be perfectly happy.
About this quote
- What does it mean?
- Life is portrayed as hostile and full of suffering, yet one persists and tells others to continue despite the pain.
- In plain terms
- Life is hard and hostile, but we keep going and tell others to do the same.
- What can you take from it?
- Acknowledge life's hardship but persist and encourage others to do the same.
Where it applies
Putting it to work
Questions to consider
- Why do we keep going when life is hard?
- How do you encourage others through pain?
Another view
It may feel too bleak for those seeking optimism.
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