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What does it mean?
The hymn celebrates a love that exists without formal union or commitment.
In plain terms
Love can be real without marriage.
What can you take from it?
Commitment is not required for valid love.

Where it applies

  • relationships
  • religion
  • ethics

Putting it to work

  • define vows
  • choose partners
  • respect bonds

Questions to consider

  • Is marriage required?
  • What is commitment?

Another view

Some need ceremony to feel secure.

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