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What does it mean?
Perception and emotion clash when trying to interpret simple spoken words.
In plain terms
What we feel struggles against the plain words we hear.
What can you take from it?
Acknowledge the gap between words and deeper feelings.

Where it applies

  • interpersonal conflict
  • deep conversation
  • misunderstanding

Putting it to work

  • active listening
  • expressing feelings
  • conflict resolution

Questions to consider

  • How often do words fail your feelings?
  • When did you hear more than what was said?

Another view

Sometimes words are meant to be taken literally without deeper feeling.

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