On amplifie egalement le malheur et le boneur, nous ne sommes jamais ni si malheureux, ni si heureux qu'on le dit.
About this quote
- What does it mean?
- We tend to exaggerate both misfortune and happiness, never truly feeling as extreme as described.
- In plain terms
- We overstate how bad or good life is.
- What can you take from it?
- Take statements about happiness or sorrow with a grain of salt.
Where it applies
Putting it to work
Questions to consider
- Why do we amplify emotions?
- How can we gauge true feelings?
Another view
People may genuinely feel extreme emotions despite the claim.
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