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Childhood lays itself out, like a novel, he suggests, complete with central observer, fixed characters, and linear plot. Later, life disperses itself into anecdotes. At twenty-one, it no longer strictly matters whether the author went first to Ireland and then to Spain, or Spain first. And after thirty, he could stitch the pages in backward for all we care.

Wilfrid Sheed#28

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About this quote

What does it mean?
Sheed compares childhood to a novel and adult life to loose anecdotes.
In plain terms
Childhood is structured; adult life is just stories.
What can you take from it?
Adults rearrange their past freely.

Where it applies

  • biography
  • writing memoirs
  • reflecting on past

Putting it to work

  • revisit childhood stories
  • accept life is messy

Questions to consider

  • How much of your past is fact or story?
  • Why do we change our life stories?

Another view

Adults still seek structure in their past.

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