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What does it mean?
Sheed describes a fear of losing identity in the gap between self and future.
In plain terms
We fear losing ourselves in the unknown future.
What can you take from it?
Identity loss is a deep fear.

Where it applies

  • planning life
  • therapy
  • midlife crisis

Putting it to work

  • define your identity
  • face the unknown

Questions to consider

  • What are you most afraid to lose?
  • Who will you be in ten years?

Another view

The future often clarifies identity.

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