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What does it mean?
Marriage is portrayed as turning friends into controlling figures.
In plain terms
Married men become restrictive like fathers to their wives.
What can you take from it?
Marriage can restrict personal freedom for women.

Where it applies

  • relationships
  • marriage
  • daily life

Putting it to work

  • seek independence
  • question roles

Questions to consider

  • How does marriage change people?
  • What is true freedom?

Another view

Not all marriages are restrictive or unfulfilling.

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