He had never learned to live without delight. And he would have to learn to, just as, in a Prohibition country, he supposed he would have to learn to live without sherry. Theoretically he knew that life is possible, maybe even pleasant, without joy, without passionate griefs. But it had never occurred to him that he might have to live like that.
About this quote
- What does it mean?
- Adapting to life without joy is possible but feels unnatural to those used to delight.
- In plain terms
- You can live without joy but it feels wrong if you are used to it.
- What can you take from it?
- Prepare for life changes that remove sources of joy.
Where it applies
Putting it to work
Questions to consider
- What joy can you live without?
- How do you adapt to loss?
Another view
Some forms of joy are essential for mental health.
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