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What does it mean?
Sometimes an arrogant neighbor says something simple that shows they are uncertain just like us. This reveals another side to them.
In plain terms
Arrogant people can show vulnerability with one simple remark.
What can you take from it?
Small moments can humanize those we dislike.

Where it applies

  • conflict resolution
  • judging others
  • social dynamics

Putting it to work

  • reassess judgments
  • look for common ground

Questions to consider

  • When did you see a hidden side of someone?
  • How do you judge others?

Another view

It might encourage seeing single remarks as full truth.

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