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What does it mean?
Solitary men appreciate friendship more than those with families. For exiles, friends are everything.
In plain terms
Lonely people value friendship most.
What can you take from it?
Friendship matters most to those without family.

Where it applies

  • lonely times
  • family absence
  • community building

Putting it to work

  • value your friends
  • build community

Questions to consider

  • Who matters more, family or friends?
  • Do you need solitude to value friends?

Another view

It may undervalue the bonds family provides.

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