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What matter if I live it all once more? Endure that toil of growing up; The ignominy of boyhood; the distress Of boyhood changing into man; The unfinished man and his pain Brought face to face with his own clumsiness; The finished man among his enemies?- How in the name of Heaven can he escape That defiling and disfigured shape The mirror of malicious eyes Casts upon his eyes until at last He thinks that shape must be his shape?

William Butler Yeats#140

IdentityGrowthPressureSelf doubtSelf esteem

About this quote

What does it mean?
The poet questions the struggle of growing up, confronting personal flaws and societal expectations.
In plain terms
Life's hardships and self‑doubt shape us, but we wonder how to escape judgment.
What can you take from it?
Accept personal growth involves confronting pain and external judgment.

Where it applies

  • adolescent crisis
  • career transition

Putting it to work

  • practice self‑compassion
  • seek supportive community

Questions to consider

  • How do I define myself beyond others' eyes?
  • What does 'finished man' mean to me?

Another view

Not everyone can overcome all external judgments.

More from William Butler Yeats

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  2. I am content to live it all again And yet again, if it be life to pitch Into the frog-spawn of a blind man's ditch, A blind man battering blind men; Or into th…

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  3. My Soul. Why should the imagination of a man Long past his prime remember things that are Emblematical of love and war? Think of ancestral night that can, If b…

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