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In courtesy I'd have her chiefly learned; Hearts are not had as a gift but hearts are earned By those that are not entirely beautiful; Yet many, that have played the fool For beauty's very self, has charm made wise. And many a poor man that has roved, Loved and thought himself beloved, From a glad kindness cannot take his eyes.

William Butler Yeats#97

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About this quote

What does it mean?
Yeats argues that character and courtesy are earned through effort rather than given as gifts, though beauty can sometimes hide foolishness.
In plain terms
Good hearts are earned not given, and beauty isn't always wisdom.
What can you take from it?
True worth comes from effort and kindness.

Where it applies

  • judging others
  • self improvement
  • relationships

Putting it to work

  • value character over looks
  • cultivate kindness

Questions to consider

  • What do you value most in people?
  • Is beauty deceptive?

Another view

It may undervalue innate qualities.

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