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What does it mean?
The speaker feels the baggage (perhaps a burden) loves them because it never criticises them and shields them from others' attacks.
In plain terms
A burden feels protective because it shields you from criticism.
What can you take from it?
Identify when self‑imposed burdens become a false sense of security.

Where it applies

  • stress management
  • self‑esteem issues
  • relationships

Putting it to work

  • examine the role of the 'baggage'
  • practice healthy self‑critique

Questions to consider

  • What does your 'baggage' protect you from?
  • Is that protection worth the cost?

Another view

Clinging to burdens can prevent personal growth.

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