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Take the happiest man, the one most envied by the world, and in nine cases out of ten his inmost consciousness is one of failure. Either his ideals in the line of his achievements are pitched far higher than the achievements themselves, or else he has secret ideals of which the world knows nothing, and in regard to which he inwardly knows himself to be found wanting.

William James#63

LifeConsciousnessIdealsSuccessFailureHappinessSelf perception

About this quote

What does it mean?
Even the happiest people often feel internal failure due to high ideals or secret standards.
In plain terms
Success doesn't stop people from feeling inadequate inside.
What can you take from it?
Recognize that internal standards often exceed external achievements.

Where it applies

  • self-reflection
  • career success
  • personal relationships

Putting it to work

  • adjust expectations
  • acknowledge inner struggles

Questions to consider

  • What standards do you hold yourself to?
  • How do you define success?

Another view

External success does not guarantee inner peace.

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