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What does it mean?
Youth is characterized by innocence and romantic idealism about winning women, but this phase ends as one matures into middle age.
In plain terms
Young boys think winning women is the main goal, but life changes when they get older.
What can you take from it?
Expect your priorities and perspective to shift significantly as you age.

Where it applies

  • reflecting on past priorities
  • advising younger relatives
  • navigating life stages

Putting it to work

  • mentorship
  • self-reflection
  • life planning

Questions to consider

  • What goals defined your youth?
  • How have your priorities changed?

Another view

Not everyone follows this linear progression from romantic pursuit to middle-aged resignation.

More from William Makepeace Thackeray

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  2. Then sing as Martin Luther sang, As Doctor Martin Luther sang, 'Who loves not wine, woman and song, He is a fool his whole life long.'

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  3. Werther had a love for Charlotte Such as words could never utter; Would you know how first he met her? She was cutting bread and butter.

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