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I am not one of those weak-spirited, sappy Americans who want to be liked by all the people around them.I don't care if people hate my guts; I assume most of them do. The important question is whether they are in a position to do anything about it. My affections, being concentrated over a few people, are not spread all over Hell in a vile attempt to placate sulky, worthless shits.

William S. Burroughs#25

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About this quote

What does it mean?
The author rejects the need for universal approval and focuses on deep connections with a few trusted people.
In plain terms
I dont care if people dislike me as long as they cant hurt me.
What can you take from it?
Prioritize genuine relationships over universal likability.

Where it applies

  • workplace dynamics
  • friendship circles
  • public figures

Putting it to work

  • limit social media
  • nurture close friends
  • ignore haters

Questions to consider

  • Who truly matters to you?
  • Why do you seek approval?

Another view

It may encourage isolation or dismiss valid social feedback.

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