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What does it mean?
Don't seek approval; simply like what you want.
In plain terms
Like what you want without caring about approval.
What can you take from it?
Choose what you like without seeking approval.

Where it applies

  • relationships
  • social pressure
  • career choices

Putting it to work

  • stop people pleasing
  • be authentic

Questions to consider

  • Do you seek approval?
  • What do you truly like?

Another view

Social cohesion often requires caring about others' opinions.

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