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What does it mean?
Living for others approval can prevent you from living authentically.
In plain terms
Do not shape your life just to make others happy.
What can you take from it?
Prioritize your own values over others approval.

Where it applies

  • career choices
  • relationships
  • family dynamics

Putting it to work

  • setting boundaries
  • self-discovery
  • decision making

Questions to consider

  • Who are you trying to please?
  • What would you do if no one cared?

Another view

Considering others needs is still important in a community.

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