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What does it mean?
The speaker advises against following trends or others' opinions and encourages living authentically.
In plain terms
Do not base your life on what others think is cool; be yourself.
What can you take from it?
Live according to your own values, not others' expectations.

Where it applies

  • personal decisions
  • social pressure
  • lifestyle choices

Putting it to work

  • reject trends
  • trust yourself
  • live authentically

Questions to consider

  • What does being yourself mean to you?
  • How do you handle social pressure?

Another view

Authenticity can sometimes lead to social isolation.

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