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What does it mean?
The speaker admits that giving one's heart leads to sorrow, and now at twenty-two, they realize the truth of that warning.
In plain terms
Loving someone causes pain, which the speaker now knows.
What can you take from it?
Loving brings inevitable sadness.

Where it applies

  • experiencing heartbreak
  • coming of age
  • writing poetry

Putting it to work

  • processing grief
  • reflecting on youth
  • comforting others

Questions to consider

  • Do you agree love always hurts?
  • When did you learn this lesson?

Another view

This generalizes heartbreak as the only outcome of giving one's heart.

More from A. E. Housman

  1. When I was one-and-twenty I heard a wise man say, 'Give crowns and pounds and guineas But not your heart away.'

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  2. His folly has not fellow Beneath the blue of day That gives to man or woman His heart and soul away.

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  3. Lovers lying two and two Ask not whom they sleep beside, And the bridegroom all night through Never turns him to the bride.

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