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About this quote

What does it mean?
Giving one's heart and soul to another is described as a unique form of folly unmatched elsewhere.
In plain terms
Giving your heart away is a foolish act.
What can you take from it?
Surrendering yourself is a mistake.

Where it applies

  • writing about regret
  • advising against love
  • comparing choices

Putting it to work

  • warning friends
  • self-reflecting
  • writing essays

Questions to consider

  • Is opening up to others foolish?
  • What counts as true folly?

Another view

This labels emotional vulnerability as foolish rather than brave.

More from A. E. Housman

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  3. When I was one-and-twenty I heard a wise man say, 'Give crowns and pounds and guineas But not your heart away.'

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