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About this quote

What does it mean?
The speaker recalls advice given in youth to guard one's heart and not give it away easily.
In plain terms
Young people are told to protect their feelings.
What can you take from it?
Protect your heart from reckless giving.

Where it applies

  • listening to elders
  • starting a relationship
  • writing memoirs

Putting it to work

  • giving advice to friends
  • remembering past lessons
  • setting boundaries

Questions to consider

  • Is it wise to withhold your heart?
  • What advice did you hear at twenty-one?

Another view

This advice may imply that love is inherently dangerous or destructive.

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