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...Gay brothers and sisters,...You must come out. Come out...to your parents...I know that it is hard and will hurt them but think about how they will hurt you in the voting booth! Come out to your relatives. ..come out to your friends...if indeed they are your friends. Come out to your neighbors...to your fellow workers...to the people who work where you eat and shop...come out only to the people you know, and who know you. Not to anyone else. But once and for all, break down the myths, destroy the lies and distortions. For your sake. For their sake. For the sake of the youngsters who are becoming scared by the votes from Dade to Eugene.

Harvey Milk#6

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About this quote

What does it mean?
Milk urges LGBTQ individuals to come out to their known circles to protect younger generations from fear and discrimination.
In plain terms
Come out to people you know to stop kids from being scared by hate.
What can you take from it?
Visibility protects the next generation from internalizing fear and stigma.

Where it applies

  • intergenerational dialogues
  • political mobilization
  • community support

Putting it to work

  • protecting youth from stigma
  • mobilizing voters through visibility

Questions to consider

  • How does visibility protect young people?
  • What is the cost of silence?

Another view

It assumes all family and friends will react supportively to coming out.

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