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What does it mean?
If you expect to find bad in people, you will notice it more and confirm that expectation.
In plain terms
Looking for evil makes you see evil.
What can you take from it?
Avoid assuming the worst in others.

Where it applies

  • first impressions
  • conflict resolution
  • team building

Putting it to work

  • practice gratitude
  • focus on positive traits

Questions to consider

  • How do your expectations shape your view of people?
  • Can you train yourself to see the good first?

Another view

Sometimes negative signs are real and need attention.

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