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What does it mean?
Constant longing may have exhausted her passion, making her feelings cooler upon his return.
In plain terms
Thinking about someone too much can kill the spark.
What can you take from it?
Balance longing with presence to keep passion alive.

Where it applies

  • reunions
  • long distance
  • relationship maintenance

Putting it to work

  • limit idealization
  • spend time together
  • manage expectations

Questions to consider

  • Can constancy kill desire?
  • Is distance helpful or harmful?

Another view

Passion can persist without constant physical presence.

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