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'I have come to you against my wish,' she said in a firm voice: 'but I have been ordered to grant your request. Three, seven, ace, will win for you if played in succession, but only on these conditions: that you do not play more than one card in twenty-four hours, and that you never play again during the rest of your life. I forgive you my death, on condition that you marry my companion, Lizaveta Ivanovna.'

Aleksandr Pushkin#23

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About this quote

What does it mean?
A woman grants a gambling wish under strict conditions to save the requester's life, demanding he marry her companion afterward.
In plain terms
She lets you win at cards but only if you stop playing forever and marry her friend.
What can you take from it?
Favor comes with heavy, lasting conditions.

Where it applies

  • negotiating deals
  • accepting help
  • making life choices

Putting it to work

  • set clear boundaries
  • understand costs of favors
  • honor commitments

Questions to consider

  • What price are you willing to pay for success?
  • Can you truly move on after accepting help?

Another view

The conditions may be impossible to follow without losing oneself.

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