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He was magnificent, and I will never forget that in that moment, I first loved him. And I never stopped loving him. I do now and always will. No one ever brought me more sorrow or pain or joy than he did. No, nothing, not even my sons, has ever outweighed the love I feel and still feel for him. And I believe - had I known what the future held for us: all the trouble, torment, battle, and grief of our lives - I still believe that I would have yielded my heart into his keeping as I did then

Alice Borchardt#25

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About this quote

What does it mean?
Deep love persists despite pain and regret, suggesting that emotional bonds outweigh suffering.
In plain terms
Love remains even when it causes great sorrow.
What can you take from it?
Accept that love involves both joy and pain.

Where it applies

  • long-term relationships
  • post-loss reflection

Putting it to work

  • honour your feelings
  • accept emotional complexity

Questions to consider

  • Is enduring pain worth love?
  • How do you measure love?

Another view

Enduring pain may not always justify staying.

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