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What does it mean?
A warrior's main duty is self-control, not violence.
In plain terms
Self-restraint is the first job of a warrior.
What can you take from it?
Control yourself before controlling others.

Where it applies

  • conflict
  • leadership
  • personal growth

Putting it to work

  • anger management
  • leadership training
  • conflict resolution

Questions to consider

  • When is force justified?
  • What is true strength?

Another view

It may excuse necessary force.

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