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What does it mean?
You cannot force feelings but you can choose to act correctly regardless of them.
In plain terms
Control your actions even if you cannot control feelings.
What can you take from it?
Act rightly even when you do not feel like it.

Where it applies

  • making tough decisions
  • ethical dilemmas
  • self-discipline

Putting it to work

  • practice self-discipline
  • focus on actions over emotions

Questions to consider

  • Can actions change feelings?
  • When is duty more important than emotion?

Another view

Sometimes feelings are too strong to ignore.

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