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What does it mean?
Loving just to be loved is normal; loving just to give love is divine.
In plain terms
Giving love without expecting anything back is better.
What can you take from it?
Love freely without expecting a return.

Where it applies

  • evaluating relationships
  • giving love
  • seeking purity

Putting it to work

  • love unconditionally
  • give without expecting
  • focus on giving

Questions to consider

  • Why do you love?
  • Is expecting love selfish?

Another view

Expecting nothing in return can sometimes lead to imbalance in relationships.

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