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What does it mean?
Congratulation is described as a polite form of envy, suggesting people congratulate others out of jealousy rather than genuine happiness.
In plain terms
People say congrats to hide their envy.
What can you take from it?
Question whether congratulations are sincere or driven by jealousy.

Where it applies

  • professional settings
  • peer interactions

Putting it to work

  • reflect on your motives
  • offer genuine praise

Questions to consider

  • Do you congratulate others sincerely?
  • Have you felt jealous when congratulating?

Another view

Not all congratulations stem from envy.

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