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What does it mean?
Bierce claims admiration is just a polite way of recognizing someone else resembles us.
In plain terms
We admire people when they are like us, and we are polite about it.
What can you take from it?
Admiration often reflects self-recognition rather than unique merit.

Where it applies

  • social dynamics
  • psychology
  • self reflection

Putting it to work

  • question why you admire others
  • check for ego bias

Questions to consider

  • What do you admire in others?
  • Is all admiration selfish?

Another view

This view is too reductionist and ignores genuine altruistic respect.

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