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About this quote

What does it mean?
The quote suggests that denying oneself can actually be a form of indulgence.
In plain terms
Giving things up can be a selfish habit.
What can you take from it?
Sacrifice can sometimes be self-centered.

Where it applies

  • evaluating sacrifices
  • personal growth

Putting it to work

  • check your motives
  • avoid performative denial

Questions to consider

  • Why do you say no to things?
  • Is self-denial ever selfish?

Another view

It may not apply to genuine altruism.

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