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What does it mean?
This advice suggests caution before helping friends who are in trouble.
In plain terms
Be careful before you help a friend who needs you.
What can you take from it?
It warns that helping others can have hidden costs.

Where it applies

  • giving advice
  • writing quotes
  • personal dilemmas

Putting it to work

  • setting boundaries
  • evaluating requests
  • self protection

Questions to consider

  • When should you help others?
  • What are risks of helping?

Another view

Helping friends often builds trust and strong relationships.

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