Edward Smith: What do you think is the characteristic of a really nice person? Some people you obviously do like more than others. Andy Warhol: Ummm, well, if they talk a lot. Edward Smith: What, and don't make you talk? Andy Warhol: Yeah, yes, that's a really nice person. Edward Smith: [laughs] Thank you, Andy.
About this quote
- What does it mean?
- A nice person is defined here by their ability to listen rather than dominate conversation.
- In plain terms
- Good people let you talk without interrupting.
- What can you take from it?
- Listening is a mark of kindness.
Where it applies
Putting it to work
Questions to consider
- Do you listen more or talk more?
- How do you show you care?
Another view
Some people show kindness through talking rather than listening.
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