Never engross the whole conversation to yourself. Say as little of yourself and friends as possible.
About this quote
- What does it mean?
- Avoid dominating conversations and minimize talking about yourself or your friends.
- In plain terms
- Do not talk only about yourself; listen more than you speak.
- What can you take from it?
- Keep the focus off yourself in group talks.
Where it applies
Putting it to work
Questions to consider
- How much do you talk about yourself in conversations?
- Who do you listen to most?
Another view
Sometimes sharing personal stories is necessary to build connection.
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