Good-breeding is opposed to selfishness, vanity, or pride. Never weary your company by talking too long or too frequently.
About this quote
- What does it mean?
- Politeness opposes selfishness and vanity; avoid tiring others with excessive talk.
- In plain terms
- Good manners mean not being selfish or talking too much to others.
- What can you take from it?
- Avoid self-centeredness and excessive talking to maintain good company.
Where it applies
Putting it to work
Questions to consider
- Do you talk too much?
- How do you show consideration?
Another view
Some contexts require detailed talking to which may contradict this advice.
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