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What does it mean?
Complaining about things you allow or accept without protest is hypocritical.
In plain terms
Do not complain about things you knowingly allow to happen.
What can you take from it?
Stop accepting situations you later complain about.

Where it applies

  • workplace conflict
  • relationship issues
  • personal habits

Putting it to work

  • identify what you accept
  • change or stop complaining

Questions to consider

  • What are you allowing that you later complain about?
  • Where do you feel powerless to change something?

Another view

It ignores situations where people lack the power to change circumstances.

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